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Heather Zarate Santiago

Heather Zarate Santiago, LMFT

Therapist in California

Warm therapist for anxiety and self-worth

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7 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English, Spanish languages

  • English and Spanish
  • Practical coping skills
  • Trauma aware care

About Heather

Heather Zarate Santiago is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with seven years of clinical experience. She works with people facing anxiety, stress, trauma, parenting strain, ADHD, and self-esteem struggles. Heather provides care in both English and Spanish and practices in California.

She approaches sessions with cultural awareness and compassion. Heather listens for how communication and social patterns shape daily life. She helps people name what is hard, try small changes, and practice new ways of coping.

In sessions she focuses on concrete skills alongside deeper emotional work. That can mean practicing ways to manage anxiety, exploring reactions tied to past trauma, or building routines that support attention and self-worth. The tone is supportive and unhurried, with an eye toward practical steps that fit real life.

Heather also helps people navigate relationship shifts, caregiving stress, and the fallout from separation or infidelity. She addresses issues like immigration stress, jealousy, and social phobia with sensitivity to each person’s story. Her aim is to help clients find clearer choices and more steady coping.

People who prefer a collaborative, culturally aware therapist may find her approach a good fit. Sessions use evidence-based therapeutic techniques and focus on helping people reconnect with strengths. To begin, clients follow the platform’s matching process and schedule sessions based on the therapist’s availability.

Evidence-based techniques and how they help online

Heather practices with evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on skill building and emotional processing. One approach emphasizes learning practical coping skills for anxiety and daily stress, such as breathing strategies, grounding exercises, and step-by-step plans to face feared situations. These techniques help reduce immediate distress and make day-to-day tasks easier.

Another approach centers on trauma-informed work that helps people understand how past experiences shape present reactions. This involves naming patterns, practicing tolerable exposure to difficult memories, and developing new ways to respond. That work supports healing from abuse, post-traumatic stress, and relational wounds.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Heather collaborates with each person to identify goals, try methods that fit their needs, and adjust the plan over time. She treats the choice of technique as a team decision based on the client’s preferences and progress.

Confirm current session options before booking, since formats are not specified in the biography. Online therapy can make sessions easier to fit into busy lives, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It can also accommodate video or audio preferences and be scheduled around work, caregiving, or school obligations, helping people maintain consistency while working toward their goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsForgivenessImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposePhobiasPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English, Spanish

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Heather address?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, ADHD, and self-esteem issues, plus related areas like caregiving stress, social anxiety, and post-traumatic stress.

What is her therapeutic style?

Heather uses a compassionate, culturally responsive approach and focuses on practical skills and emotional processing in collaboration with each client.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of experience working with diverse communities on anxiety, trauma, parenting, and self-esteem concerns.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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