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Jilla Lavian

Jilla Lavian, LCSW

Therapist in California

Compassionate LCSW helping rebuild self esteem

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20 years of experience listed

LCSW professional credentials

English, Persian languages

  • Self esteem support
  • Goal focused work
  • English and Persian

About Jilla

Jilla Lavian is a California licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) with about 20 years of experience. She focuses on helping people build self esteem and handle stress, anxiety, grief, and relationship strain. She offers a calm, respectful presence and aims to help people feel heard and clearer about next steps.

Jilla draws on practical tools and careful listening. She combines cognitive behavioral ideas with mindfulness and a psychodynamic perspective to look at patterns that keep people stuck. Sessions often involve noticing thought patterns, trying simple behavior changes, and practicing awareness skills to ease anxiety and improve mood.

She also uses motivational interviewing and solution-focused methods to help set realistic goals and make steady progress. Jilla mentions life coaching as part of her background, and she supports people who want clearer direction in career, parenting, or life transitions. Conversations are guided toward actionable steps rather than vague plans.

Her work pays attention to family of origin issues, attachment and abandonment concerns, codependency, and caregiver stress. She also addresses multicultural issues, immigration-related stress, and feelings of isolation or emptiness. Jilla helps people reconnect with creativity, clarify values, and reduce guilt or shame.

Sessions are conducted in English and Persian. Jilla trained at the University of Southern California and brings two decades of practice to the work. People who want a thoughtful, goal-oriented approach to building self esteem and coping with life changes may find her style helpful.

How Jilla Uses Practical Approaches Online

Jilla often draws on cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness in her work. CBT looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions interact and uses simple exercises to test unhelpful beliefs and try small behavior changes. Mindfulness teaches noticing thoughts and bodily sensations without judgment, which can calm anxiety and help with sleep and anger.

She also uses motivational interviewing to support motivation and commitment to change, especially for career shifts, parenting goals, or breaking unhelpful patterns. These methods are explained plainly and adapted to what a person wants to achieve, so the approach is chosen together based on needs and preferences.

For online therapy logistics, confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Therapists can guide practical homework, breathing or mindfulness practices between meetings, and goal-setting that fits daily life, all tailored collaboratively with the client.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English, Persian

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Jilla commonly address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship and parenting concerns as well as grief, anger, sleep problems, and career questions.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

Her style mixes practical skills and reflective work. She uses CBT, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, psychodynamic ideas, and solution-focused techniques to set goals and change patterns.

What is her clinical background and experience?

She is a licensed clinical social worker with nearly 20 years of experience working with diverse communities and life transition issues.

Where is she based and what credentials does she hold?

She practices in California and holds the LCSW credential listed as CA LCSW.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Persian.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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