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Lara Shemali

Lara Shemali, LMHC

Therapist in Washington

Experienced counselor focused on practical self-esteem work

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29 years of experience listed

LMHC professional credentials

English languages

  • Stress reduction
  • Anxiety relief
  • Relationship help

About Lara

Lara Shemali is a licensed mental health counselor with 29 years of practice in Washington. She focuses on practical tools to reduce stress and manage anxiety while helping people rebuild confidence and self esteem. Her work also addresses relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, addiction recovery, and depression.

She talks with people in a straightforward way and aims to create a nonjudgmental space for honest conversation. Sessions emphasize building skills you can use outside of therapy, such as stress reduction techniques and strategies to cope with anxiety. She encourages people to move toward goals that matter to them in daily life.

Her background includes long experience supporting recovery from substance use and other addictive behaviors. She also helps with attachment and abandonment concerns, communication problems, commitment issues, and difficulties that come with blended-family dynamics. Body image, chronic pain or illness, and dissociation are also within her focus.

Lara uses a mix of commonly used therapeutic approaches to match each person’s needs. That includes methods that look at thoughts and behaviors, approaches that emphasize emotional connection, and work that supports values-based choices. She will tailor the balance of these methods to your situation.

She recognizes that scheduling can be a barrier, so she offers weekday hours and may provide evening or weekend appointments when available. To begin, people complete a short intake and schedule a session based on what works for them. Her goal is to help people take steady steps toward greater confidence and daily functioning.

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Lara draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy as part of her work. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and emotions without getting stuck, then choose actions that match their values to move forward. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and creating a respectful space where people can talk through what matters most to them.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. She will work with each person to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences, and adjust the mix as progress is made. That collaborative planning helps shape session focus and homework between meetings.

The biography does not specify exact online formats, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week by reducing travel time and allowing appointments outside typical business hours when the therapist has availability. It can also make shorter check-ins or focused skill-practice easier to schedule around work, school, or caregiving responsibilities.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential Therapy

Experience

29+ years

Credentials

Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lara commonly address?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem struggles, and depression.

What is her general therapeutic style?

She uses a practical, person-centered style that combines emotion-focused and skills-based work to help people make changes in daily life.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 29 years of professional work experience in the mental health field.

What are her credentials and practice location?

She is a LMHC licensed in Washington and provides services from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for therapy with her?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps are needed to start working together?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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