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Elizabeth Kotkin

Elizabeth Kotkin, LMFT

Therapist in New York

Compassionate therapist for real-life challenges

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35 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • 35 years experience
  • LMFT in CA and NY
  • Focus on self esteem

About Elizabeth

Elizabeth Kotkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 35 years of clinical experience. She works with people facing depression, trauma, grief, and low self esteem. Her style is warm and straightforward, aimed at helping clients make steady, practical changes.

She focuses on common struggles like anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, and social isolation. She also addresses addictions, codependency, and challenges that come with midlife or major life transitions. Many clients come for help with sleep problems, anger, and parenting strain.

Elizabeth uses approaches that emphasize the client’s own goals and strengths. She blends Client-Centered Therapy with practical tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Motivational Interviewing. For people affected by trauma she incorporates Trauma-Focused Therapy to address painful memories and symptoms.

Sessions are described as collaborative and goal-oriented. Elizabeth helps clients set small, realistic steps and notices what is working so plans can be adjusted. She pays attention to how family of origin issues, shame, and abandonment concerns shape current patterns.

She practices in New York as a CA LMFT and NY LMFT which reflect licensure in both states. Elizabeth speaks English and brings decades of experience to each session while meeting people where they are.

How her approaches translate to online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and supporting the person where they are, helping them identify priorities and build on their strengths. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) uses straightforward exercises and thought-behavior work to reduce symptoms like anxiety, low mood, and sleep problems. Trauma-Focused Therapy offers ways to address painful memories and their effects while pacing the work so it feels manageable.

Choosing the right approach is a joint process. The therapist will ask about your goals, what has helped before, and how you prefer to work. Together you can try an approach and adjust it based on what feels most useful and practical.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm available session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online work can make scheduling easier, help fit therapy into busy days, and allow for shorter check-ins when time is limited. Licensed professionals can use online meetings to review CBT exercises, set behavioral tasks, and have thoughtful trauma-focused conversations without changing the fundamental goals of therapy.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesCodependencyDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisPost-traumatic stressSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Credentials

New York, California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with depression, anxiety, trauma and grief along with relationship strain, self esteem, addiction concerns, sleep problems, anger, parenting stress and related issues.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her work is collaborative and client-centered, with practical tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing and Trauma-Focused Therapy when appropriate.

How long has she practiced?

She has 35 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of emotional and life transition concerns.

Where is she licensed and located?

She holds LMFT credentials in California and New York and practices in New York.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with her?

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