Holly Starr is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience in the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief, trauma, relationship and intimacy concerns, and major life transitions. Her style is calm and attentive, aimed at helping people feel steadier and more able to make small changes that matter.
She trained with a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature and a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology. Early work on a suicide prevention hotline and as a grief therapist and supervisor shaped her interest in loss, bereavement, and mood concerns. That background supports focused work when feelings are raw or overwhelming.
In sessions she listens closely and pays attention to how people describe their experience. She invites curiosity about difficult feelings and helps make sense of reactions that feel confusing or painful. When patterns become clearer, she and the client look at how thoughts shape choices and behaviors.
Holly uses a mix of approaches that fit the person in front of her rather than a single formula. Some clients focus on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, while others explore attachment history and deeper life themes. She believes small shifts can lead to meaningful changes in daily life.
People who reach out will find straightforward guidance about next steps. The first steps are a short matching questionnaire and scheduling a session according to availability. Sessions are offered in English and take place with Holly in California.
How Holly’s Approaches Work Online and in Session
Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape how people connect and feel safe with others. It can help when relationship patterns, insecurity, or codependency leave someone feeling stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and is useful for anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem by teaching concrete ways to test and change unhelpful thinking. Psychodynamic and Jungian ideas attend to deeper life themes and personal history, helping people make sense of repeated patterns and inner conflicts.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Holly meets each person where they are and together they decide which methods feel most useful. This is a collaborative process that balances short-term goals with exploring deeper patterns when needed.
If you are considering online work, confirm the current session options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Licensed professionals can use different methods over video or written exchanges, and Holly adapts her approach to match a client's goals and daily routine.
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem concerns, grief, trauma and relationship and intimacy issues among other life changes.
What is her therapy style like?
Holly listens closely and encourages curiosity about feelings. She combines attentive listening with practical steps to help people make small, useful changes.
What is her clinical background?
She has 25 years of experience, a BA in English Literature and a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology, and early work in suicide prevention and grief supervision.
Where is she licensed and located?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California and practices from that state.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions scheduled and paid for?
Cost varies with location and availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin a counseling relationship?
Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.