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Paul Buehler

Paul Buehler, LICSW, LCSW

Therapist in New York

Straightforward care that builds self esteem and skills

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5 years of experience listed

LICSW, LCSW professional credentials

English languages

  • Warm and nonjudgmental
  • Skill focused
  • Goal oriented

About Paul

Paul Buehler is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in New York. He draws on five years of practice as a psychotherapist and a long career in mental health to help people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. Paul aims to build a respectful, steady helping relationship as the basis for change.

Paul’s style is warm and non-judgmental. He focuses on meeting people where they are and working at a pace that feels manageable. He supports clients in developing practical skills for daily problems like parenting stress, relationship friction, and low self esteem.

In sessions he uses a mix of client-centered listening and practical techniques. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people notice and change unhelpful thought patterns. Mindfulness practices are used to calm the body and increase present-moment awareness. Solution-focused work helps set clear, short-term goals and steps to reach them.

Paul also draws on motivational interviewing to explore readiness for change, and he applies trauma-informed ideas when people have a history of abuse or loss. He has worked with issues related to grief, intimacy, adoption and foster care, caregiver stress, and compassion fatigue. He also addresses social anxiety, attachment concerns, and life-purpose questions.

Sessions are conducted in English and organized around each person’s goals. Paul encourages an initial conversation to clarify needs, then builds a simple plan together. He aims to make therapy useful and relevant to everyday life.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening without judgment and following the client's lead. It helps when someone needs space to tell their story and feel understood before taking steps to change.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect. It provides clear exercises and steps to test new behaviors, which can be practiced between sessions to tackle anxiety, low self esteem, and mood problems.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus. These techniques often help with stress, rumination, and managing intense emotions.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work. Paul treats the choice of approach as collaborative and will help identify what fits a client's goals and day-to-day life. He adjusts methods based on progress and personal preference.

For practical matters, confirm the therapist's current session options before booking, since exact formats were not fully specified in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, allow for quieter surroundings, or offer a shorter check-in when needed. Licensed professionals can use these formats to focus on skill building, coping strategies, and goal planning in ways that fit into everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTTrauma and abuseParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePost-traumatic stressSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

New York, Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can Paul help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem challenges, parenting and relationship concerns, grief, trauma and related issues listed in his specialties.

What is his general approach in sessions?

Paul blends client-centered listening with practical techniques like CBT, mindfulness, and solution-focused work to help people set and reach concrete goals.

How much clinical experience does he have?

Paul has five years of psychotherapy experience and a longer background in mental health and direct services to youth and families.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

He holds LICSW and LCSW credentials and practices from New York.

Which languages are supported and can international clients be seen?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, since formats were not fully specified in the biography.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with him?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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