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Shirley Semel

Shirley Semel, LMFT

Therapist in California

Helping people build self worth and steadier relationships

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8 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • Client-centered approach
  • Practical behavior work
  • Faith-informed support

About Shirley

Shirley Semel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. She focuses on helping people recover from setbacks and build stronger self worth. Shirley aims to create a caring space where clients can talk openly and feel heard without judgment.

She draws on client-centered work to place the person's experience at the center of sessions. That means conversations are guided by the client's goals and pace. Shirley also uses elements of cognitive behavioral therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and try small, practical changes.

Her background includes eight years of clinical work and experience leading groups on topics such as domestic violence, anger management, and addiction relapse prevention. She has supported people facing addiction, mood concerns such as depression and bipolar, trauma and grief, chronic illness, and the stress of caregiving or blended family arrangements.

Shirley often helps clients look at relationship patterns, communication, and family history to find what keeps them stuck. She also offers faith-informed counseling when that is important to the client. Sessions typically focus on clear goals, small steps, and building daily habits that support long-term change.

People who choose Shirley can expect a warm, nonjudgmental approach and attention to practical ways to increase joy and calm. To begin, she asks people to reflect on what matters most to them and what they hope to change.

How Shirley’s Approaches Work Online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and following the person's lead. It creates space to name what matters most and to set goals that feel right for the client. This approach helps with low self esteem, relationship concerns, and big life decisions.

Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts affect feelings and actions. It uses simple, practical exercises to test unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. This approach is useful for anxiety, mood issues, and coping with stress or sleep problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Shirley will collaborate with each person to choose techniques that match their needs, goals, and preferences. Together they set short-term goals and try practices that fit into daily life rather than promising a single method will fix everything.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also makes it simple to continue sessions during life changes while keeping focus on practical steps that build self esteem and better relationships.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Blended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shirley commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma, grief, self esteem, relationship and family concerns, and related issues such as parenting and sleep problems.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style blends client-centered listening with practical strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy and goal-focused work. Sessions aim to be compassionate while addressing patterns that keep people stuck.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

Shirley has eight years of clinical experience and has led groups on domestic violence, anger management, and addiction relapse prevention.

What credentials and region does she practice in?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the US schedule with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; scheduling is for clients within the therapist's service area.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Shirley?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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