Sharon (Shonnie) Brown is a California licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with three decades of clinical experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, self-esteem concerns, grief, and major life changes. Her approach is straightforward and compassionate, aimed at steady progress rather than quick fixes.
Shonnie draws on a mix of methods to fit each person's needs. She uses cognitive tools to challenge unhelpful thoughts, mindfulness and coping skills to ease intense feelings, and writing exercises when that feels useful. Goal setting is part of most plans, and she pays attention to how attachment and family history shape present problems.
Her background includes a B.A. from UC Berkeley and a master’s degree in counseling psychology from JFK University in Orinda, California. Over the years she has worked with individuals and couples and led groups about separation, infidelity, co-parenting, and social anxiety. She also writes professionally and often uses writing as a therapeutic tool.
Shonnie describes her style as honest, direct, and warm. She emphasizes learning self-soothing and building self-compassion before moving into bigger life changes. Practical tools and real-life skills are a big part of sessions.
Clients often bring concerns like toxic workplace stress, divorce and separation, parenting strain, intimacy issues, ADHD challenges, and aging-related worries. She encourages small, manageable steps and focuses on developing clearer boundaries, healthier self-talk, and daily practices that support lasting change.
Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life
Sharon draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationships shape current patterns of relating. This approach helps when trust, closeness, or boundary issues make relationships feel unsafe or confusing. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people spot and change unhelpful thinking patterns that fuel anxiety, low self-esteem, or depression. CBT focuses on practical steps and experiments you can try between sessions.
Choosing the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and daily life. Together they’ll decide whether attachment work, CBT, or another method feels most useful and adjust as progress unfolds.
Confirm current session options before booking to know which online formats are offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives, cut travel time, and keep continuity during life transitions. It also lets people use shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, or choose video or phone depending on energy and focus needs. The emphasis is on practical work you can use between meetings to build self-soothing, better boundaries, and stronger self-esteem.
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, self-esteem issues, grief, parenting strain, career and workplace stress, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and related challenges.
What is her therapy style like?
Her style is honest, direct, and warm. Sessions focus on practical skills, goal setting, mindfulness, and writing exercises when helpful.
How much experience does she have?
She has 30 years of clinical experience working primarily with individuals and couples and leading groups on separation, infidelity, co-parenting, and social anxiety.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a California licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - based in California.
In which languages are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions priced and billed?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.